Do what you love

One of my friend, who started his career recently is performing a HR & Admin role in a known organisation. He also wants to try his luck with QA (Quality Assurance). He wanted my opinion on how to go about this to make a good career. I suggested to focus on one, either HR or QA. So, asked him to think and decide after discussing with his mentors, friends & contacts. More importantly asked him to listen to his heart and analyse/understand clearly to know what his passion says. I have also asked him not to rush it since it is better to face the delay now, rather than regretting the decision later. My gut feel was that he would do well as a HR.

He came back after 3 weeks with the points which convinced him to be a QA. However, I could not find any mention about his interest or passion in the list he came up with. It was clear that he had his mind fixed on QA even before doing this exercise and he was in a terrible rush. All the points he came up with for not to choose HR would very well be the reason for him to regret his choice of QA later. According to me the interest/passion and the reason for why QA should have been the first and most important thing of all the points he mentioned, but that was clearly missing from the list. My worry is that, he should not make a wrong decision now and regret that when it is too late.

There are many in this world, who are on the same boat as my friend, especially in the IT industry. People choose a profession due to the situation, attraction, family business, seeing someone successful or just for money, without even considering if it is their interest or not. Education system & culture plays a major role in making these decisions, but it is actually screwing up the profession or a career of an individual these days. If someone choose a profession which they are not passionate about or interested in, he/she will not enjoy or perform in that profession in a longer run, sooner or later they will exhaust themselves and continue to perform badly, lose confidence, feel bored and stop growing. Hence, it is very important to know where your passion is and do what you love to do.
It is a habit for many in the industry to waste their career/life just by following others ambitions and die without having one on their own. Very few will have their own vision/ambition and passionately run towards it to achieve and feel satisfied, it is their voice which will stand out in the noise.

I am sure, you have sighted these people at your workplace,
- Who are not enthusiastic, dull or bored at work and getting used to the boredom.
- Who are excited about anything initially, and not bothered about that later.
- Who never improvise or add value to their task or duty.
- Who just does what is asked for rather than challenging what is asked for.
- Who never makes an effort to initiate anything new to improvise.
- Who never responds to the mentoring or never learns from their mistakes.
- Who goes into a defensive mode whenever there is a problem.
- Who performs poorly and pretend that they are performing well.
- Who only cares about what to do rather than how to do things.
- Who always look for an easy task and stay in the comfort zone.
- Who is never satisfied at the work, but console themselves and continue to do the same for survival.
- Who finds excuses for not doing things, rather than making things happen.

...ever wondered why they are like that? they for sure are not passionate in what they are doing, yes. They either have their passion elsewhere or they do not know what their passion is.

You must have bumped into these people as well in your experience,
- Who focuses on the core task, adds value and makes a difference on what they deliver.
- Who are determined to complete the tasks to the perfection and goes extra mile to achieve the same.
- Who are always curious about things they are interested in and always keep themselves updated.
- Who can never be stopped by time or by any means when they are on to the task which is of their interest.
- Who always looks for improving the way to reach to his goals efficiently.
- Who are self motivated and no situation can stop him in reaching his goals.
- Who pours in initiatives and work towards making things happen rather than waiting for things to happen.
- Who always evaluate themselves often and are never satisfied with their performance.
- Who are always in search of challenges.
- Who are bored to do the same kind of work repeatedly.

...if you wonder why, yes, they are passionate in what they are doing, and they love what they do. Passionate people do not see the work as a task or duty, but they see it as part of their day to day life and they practice that everyday, and of course they enjoy it thoroughly.

Just dream of a life: we get up early; getting ready with an excitement to do something you enjoy; doing something which will satisfy you thoroughly; which will make you forget about this world in pleasure; where time runs in the speed of light; work your brains and body out to do what you believe in; doing something you love; doing something for yourself; feeling that you need more than 24 hours in a day; still not feeling stressed about it; going to bed with the feeling that you have done something today which took you closer to your vision; just sleeping to prepare yourself for the next day fun. Wow! Would that not be a life which everyone of us want to live? It is damn worth living for.

My 1 Rupee on hunting for the passion,

Visionary: One must have a vision, a vision which will keep us driving regardless of the hurdles. A vision which gives a meaning to your life. A roadmap should be worked out for your vision and find how to make it possible.

Brainstorm: Find the list of things you would love to do all the time. What would you have done if you were given an opportunity to choose your profession? Think, what you would want to do to feel satisfied after all of your needs are met. Read, Read, Read, a lot.

Mentors: There are lots of inspirations on the earth, get inspired. There are lots of people to admire in this world, admire them. Note down all the inspirations and admiration you bump on. Reach out to friends, family & experts, ask for their opinions and suggestions, there is a mentor in everyone. Understand their inspirations/admiration/vision/passion, learn from their experience.

Be Honest: Many people convince themselves that what they are doing is right, even though if it is not the case, due to the situation. They fool themselves by doing so. It is quite important to admit to the fact and be honest & straight forward to get the passion hunt successful. Listen to your heart and be honest to yourself.

One of my friend said, "I do not mind working hard, as long as we achieve something". It is so damn true, however you can only achieve something if you are doing something which you are passionate about or love to do, you can see wonderful results with less efforts, otherwise, even though your efforts are hard and honest, it will not yield the outcome you expect.

Of course it is a huge effort to find the passion and position the career based on the same, but it is not impossible. This initial effort and the pain is temporary and will bring great wonders later in your career and life, as an old saying goes "Where there is no pain, there is no gain". If one realises that their current profession is not of their interest, if they see any of the above mentioned 'lack of passion' symptoms in them, then it is better to re-consider their profession. Staying in the current profession will not only make them dull, it will also screw their career and life.

So, pull yourself together; devise your vision; brainstorm your desires; reach out to mentors; put everything in place; follow your heart; be honest; find your passion; work on it; enjoy everyday doing what you love to do; feel truly satisfied in what you have achieved everyday; move closer to your vision; sleep tight; look forward for the next day to move ahead...

..simply, "Do what you love; Love what you do".

"The core value of Apple is that we believe that people with passion can change the world for the better" - Steve Jobs

The SIR syndrome

The security guard stood up from his seat and said "Good Morning, Sir", when I walked into the office (where we have outsourced our work). It was almost like a military salute to the commander. I was surprised with that reception and I stepped into the office to meet the team, most of the team members followed the security guard, but without a military salute and very few called me by name. I thought it was due to me being a client for their organization, but when I observed the other projects going around in that organization for various other clients, I realised that it was not just the clients who they call "sir", they call their bosses as well "sir". I was a bit shocked to see this practice still alive in India, since I thought it would have been resting in the grave a while back.

This is one of the trigger for initiating the hierarchical environments at the workplace. This continuously reminds us that the hierarchy is not dead, but it has merely changed its form. Whenever I hear employees call their bosses(managers/leads) "sir" or see the employee being subservient while addressing seniors in the company, I see barriers in the communication, indirectly is a barrier to the growth of an organization. This is just one of the many hierarchical practices that are holding back the attitude growth. It is bold given that in India this represents the culture in nearly 90 percent of the companies, despite many IT companies having dropped this formality for years.



Hierarchical work environments are now outdated in IT industry. If an organization wants to grow their business rapidly, they need to create such an environment where everyone is respected and treated equally, rather than just letting people boasting themselves or their seniors instead of the core business. They need to work for themselves not for anyone, ie, work for yourself and work with everyone. This has been discussed enough in the previous post already, so moving on.



This SIR-ing continued despite of me requesting them not to do so. This continued from a car driver to a colleague in the office. Some listened to my request and tried to implement, but that effort lasted only like a minority government of a democratic country, since they were demanded to SIR in the other areas of the organization. It is one of the practice which should be avoided when the teams are built in India, considering the demands of the traditional social environment.

Why SIR? What is the reason behind SIR? thinking about it, it was mostly used to respect people. People's designation, job, money, financial status or age. Saying so, the respect for a person should be based on their values, not by anything else. Very importantly, this respect should be earned, and not demanded.

How to stop this? this habit was tattooed deeply in many minds by the traditional hierarchical structure, this has almost mixed in their blood, hence it is not easy to unplug them from this habit. So, how to stop this? I jokingly started calling my colleagues "sir" as well, in return to their call. Yes, if "sir" was used to respect people, let us respect each other by calling everyone "sir". After all, we should treat everyone equally with respect and obviously we only hire people with good values, so everyone deserves that respect. This counter strike shocked them, but as time went by all got used to it. At one point everyone in the organization called each other "sir". Well, what does SIR mean now?

"By calling everyone as SIR, We all respect each other, we treat everyone as Equal"

or

"If everyone is a SIR, there is no meaning for SIR, the meaning of SIR is negated"

Either way, the goal was achieved by counter striking the SIR (like, shutting down the fire with a counter fire). Calling "sir" and having a flat structure might sound contradictory, but it for sure broke few barriers and the risk of the hierarchical fear. Most importantly, respect for all the employees regardless of the role or title is critical and we could able to promote an environment to challenge anyone's (including the management) views regardless of the title or seniority.

So, Enjoy SIRing with proud (only as a counter fire to shutdown the SIR fire) and without being paranoid about creating a hierarchical environment.